Sunday, September 12, 2010

Respect

Respect is a mutual appreciation for one's personality, ideas, and humanity.  Respect is the basis for any relationship: parent/child, co-worker/co-worker, teacher/student, and student/student.  It is the responsibility of the teacher to build a classroom in which respect is fostered.  This starts with the teacher respecting their students ideas, but also making it known that the teacher has authority in the classroom.  When a teacher respects all of their students it encourages students to respect other students.  When respect is present in a classroom students and teachers feel comfortable sharing ideas and asking questions and this encourages genuine and fruitful learning for all parties involved.  I believe that respect is something that needs to be established from day one by showing genuine interest in the students lives inside and outside of the classroom.  The teacher needs to be honest about expectations for their class and in their classroom.  Once respect is gained the teacher must work consistently with students to maintain this respect because once respect is lost it is incredibly difficult to regain. 

2 comments:

  1. Hi Brian, (I'm Jim's student aid, in case he hasn't "virtually introduced" me to your class; he gave me permission to check out/comment on your guys' blogs)

    You write that respect is necessary in a classroom in order for people to be comfortable sharing ideas, and that respect must FIRST be modeled by the teacher - I couldn't agree with you more...I think sometimes teachers don't realize how much of an impact their own "model" has on his/her students!

    You define respect as "a mutual appreciation for one's personality, ideas, and humanity." Here's my question for you: What if something about one of my classmates really bugs me? Say the girl next to me talks incessantly and always interrupts me when I'm speaking...do I have the right to be annoyed by her, or should I tell myself I need to "like" the fact that she never stops talking? Can I respect this girl as a human being by showing her kindness through my actions without necessarily "appreciating" her chattiness?

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  2. Good point maybe I could rephrase my definition as "a mutual appreciation for one's personality, ideas, or at least their humanity."

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